How Attached Are You to Your Past?
I was talking to a potential client the other day and she was making great progress towards her goals but she was looking frustrated. She said that every time she gets close to her goals, she gets dragged back to her past and it all comes to a halt. Have you ever had that happen to you?
The thing is- it made her anxious and scared and she felt stuck – not very helpful as she was growing her business. She had had an experience in her work before where she had “put her head above the parapet” and had been “Shot Down”. And it had been so traumatic that she couldn’t shake off the “bungee cord” that was dragging her back to the past.
Watch the video and then consider whether you need help by talking to me – It’s my area of expertise.
Have you had any experience where you have been unable to stop yourself being dragged back from the past?
It’s very common – I remember my Dad saying “don’t say you’ve done well” when I passed my 11 plus – in case my sister was upset. Some 40 years on, standing up and telling people about what I do was then quite difficult. And it wasn’t a big thing and he was doing what he thought was best.
Sometimes people have some major incidents happen and some are minor, but if they get wired into your thinking they can be unhelpful.
This can be in relationships, romantic or otherwise, in your career, in your business or any other part of your life.
So you have a choice – You can either say – that was in the past and get on with what you want to achieve – or you can get some help – Having a conversation with me will help you decide how to deal with it. So book an appointment and then you can get on with the rest of your life and achieve what you want to achieve. That’s what I did and I’m so glad I did!
Until next week – keep moving forward!