How to deal with Indecisiveness In Order to Be Successful
To be successful in your business, life or relationships it’s really useful to have an element of decisiveness. Sometimes people get caught up in being indecisive and that means they have no clear direction or thought processes. They have the “Shall I,” Shan’t I,” “Will I,” Won’t I,” conflict that goes on in their heads.
They know that if they want to get rid of anxiety and reach their goals, then they have to be decisive.
With this in mind, in this week’s Prescription for Success I’m going to talk a little bit about ‘parts’, which is an NLP term. If you find yourself being indecisive, watch the video and learn about this NLP technique to help.
What are ‘parts’ in NLP?
A ‘part’ refers to parts of the unconscious mind that cause conflict. So, sometimes I believe in myself but sometimes I don’t believe in myself, or part of me thinks I’m good enough and part of me thinks I’m not good enough.
The causes of parts in the unconscious mind are significant emotional events. They may be adverse childhood experiences or they may be significant events or traumas from later on in your life. When these events happen then sometimes it’s just a little wobble or sometimes it can create limiting beliefs or limiting decisions.
If the rate of change of a particular emotional process is quite fast or significant in terms of the actual strength of that emotion then it can cause parts, phobias and sometimes multiple personalities.
A part is in conflict with another part, and the theory behind resolving parts is that they were once whole and can become whole again by reintegrating the parts. Then looking to see what the parts have as a positive intention, realising that both parts have the same highest positive intention and reintegrating them using an NLP technique.
I teach people how to do this on my NLP Courses and I also do a lot of work with people who have conflict and want to have some coaching and/or to do a breakthrough process with me.
If you’ve got conflict and if you are indecisive then there will be a root cause behind that. Get in touch because I do a free half hour call where we can find out what’s going on and then resolve it. You then won’t have that conflict anymore and you can just get on with your life and feel happy.
Until Next Week
Dr Bridget – being decisive