Crossroads – how do you evaluate them?
As an unsticker, I often get people coming to me and saying that they are at a crossroads and can’t make the decision which way to go. And I’m guessing that many of us have been there over the last few years and have had to change what we do and how we do it.
When you stand at a crossroads, there are 4 directions – Back, sideways x 2, and a forward. Right?
And how do you make the decision which way to go? A lot of people get stuck at this point.
Have a look at the video and then find out more below.
When you have decided what you would like to have as a magic wand outcome for a years time, then turn and check whether there is anything in the past or to the side of the crossroads that you would like to bring with you.
Then check whether the direction that you are facing is more compelling in your mind than the other directions.
Once you are clear on which way you are going, then you can start and there will no longer be a crossroad there.
If you are stuck and really don’t know what to do, then let me know and I can help you to decide and get rid of anything internally that’s stopping you. I can be your unsticker. Click here to find out how.
The reason that people get stuck are:
- Lack of self belief
- Lack of feeling that you are worth doing what you want to do
- Feeling that it’s easier to stay where you are even though that’s uncomfortable
- Lack of support
- Lack of accountability
I’m wondering if you are thinking any of those things? If so, get in touch
Until next week,
Dr Bridget – getting you moving in the direction you want