How do you react when adversity comes along?
Does it stop you?
One of the themes of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) focuses on whether you are getting results or giving yourselves reasons why you can’t do whatever it is.
I find there are so many people who come and see me, wanting to get unstuck, or get more success or happiness, that have a huge amounts of reasons and excuses why they can’t. Adversity can happen and it’s how you deal with it that matters – its about resilience. A minor example is when I wanted to do the videos today, it was going to rain and be cloudy. And I feel as though I have a cold coming on. So I got my wellies and my umbrella and told my unconscious mind that it it wasn’t convenient to be unwell. I know what my goals are and part of them is spreading the word and supporting people to get unstuck and because of that, the videoing was going to happen no matter what.
Watch the video (sorry about the expression) and then ask yourself the questions underneath.
- Do you have goals?
- Do you have reasons or excuses why adversity gets in the way?
- Are you resilient?
- Whats stopping you – big things or small things?
If you know what they are and you can’t do anything about them consciously, book a free session here so that we can clear the reasons and excuses and head you for your goals!
Coming on an NLP course will help you to get rid of the reasons and excuses and become resilient, as well as giving you some amazing communication and resilience skills for your self and others. One of my Master Practitioner trainees has just landed a 7 book contract and has the opportunity to run retreats abroad in the next year! And a year ago she was unwell and not focusing on her future at all. It’s totally amazing watching her fly!
Until next week, set your goals and overcome the reasons and excuses!