Reasons to Avoid Negativity
For a change I thought I’d base this blog on a typical client’s challenge. This person is one of many who come and see me in order to move on in their life and get “success” – whatever that means to them. This client thought that they were positive but they weren’t getting success and when we went into the details, actually they had a lot of negativity from things in the past which they had suppressed. So they were telling themselves that they were positive and ignoring the little voice inside that said – “yes – but…..”
They were bored and procrastinating due to a fear which we uncovered and then removed.
There had been trauma with relationships, bullying and other incidents which had led to them self sabotaging and not effectively running a business which meant a lot to them. Their values (motivators) were all about moving away from what they didn’t want rather than towards what they didn’t want. Their top value was peace when we elicited them and this was because they didn’t want conflict. The second one was Self – Belief which was because they felt not good enough and was avoiding that thought.
Watch the video below to get some more insights and I’ll give you access to a free tool below to discover your values so that you can reflect on yours.
So this person’s limiting beliefs were:
- I’m not good enough
- I won’t be respected
- I can’t do what I want
- Life would be worse if I am successful
And they got stuck- not surprisingly.
So we removed all of the beliefs, plus some associated ones, using NLP and Time Line Therapy and my Breakthrough process and they became very excited by life!
If you have things that are keeping you from going for what you want, book a free appointment and let’s get you excited as well.
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Until next week
Dr Bridget – Getting You Excited